I think every person has a deal breaker or a final straw when it comes to pursuing someone and having it not go anywhere. It’s the question of, “At what point should I just give up and stop trying?”
And then that one person who you thought was just so attractive and who you were so interested in suddenly just becomes a normal person that doesn’t seem all that great anymore cause they just did something that was just a deal breaker.
Or maybe it just hits you one day that you two probably are not ever going to happen and you just accepted it at that moment.
We’re now at the age where anyone you seriously date has a good chance of being the one you end up with in the future and I think that is just terrifying and makes me hesitant to want to talk to guys with the intention of a relationship because ya gurl is indecisive and can barely decide on what to eat for dinner let alone who she is going to spend the rest of her life with.
This is the most single, most independent, and happiest I have ever been in my life. And I’ve definitely come a long way from the dependent and serial monogamist who was always dating or “talking” to someone.
But I would be lying if I said I didn’t miss being held or being intimate with someone.
“If you gave me a chance I would take it
It’s a shot in the dark but I’ll make it
Know with all of your heart, you can’t shake me
When I am with you, there’s no place I’d rather be”—"Rather Be" - Clean Bandit
“If you’re ever lucky enough to find a girl who is a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind, you should hold onto that. Because she’ll be yours at two in the morning and at two in the afternoon the following day. She’ll kiss you where it hurts and until it hurts. And that’s important. Someone who not only knows how to turn you on but also knows how to treat you right is someone worth a little something… and a little more than usual.”—(via in-love-with-a-girl)